I just love this photo. That’s my daughter out on the water, sailing her Far East Laser with an ILCA 6 rig.
How do I know it’s her from a distance? The “Dump” sticker on the stern of her boat gives it away! Over the years, we’ve built a great friendship with SAFYC Coach Jason Swee, who gifted her that sticker from one of his many trips to Japan. Thank you so much, Coach Jason!
Our family’s journey with SAFYC started all the way back in 2002. That was the year I signed up for a membership while taking my Powered Pleasure Craft Driving Licence (PPCDL) test—back when the test center was right next to the Sembawang clubhouse. I’ve kept my membership active ever since, because even back then, I decided that all my children would learn to sail. Little did I know how much that one decision would enrich our lives.
When my kids started out, discovering the world of competitive primary school sailing was a real eye-opener. It showed them early on that life isn’t just about schoolwork, tuition, and exams. More importantly, sailing gave them a life outdoors—under the sun, out on the sea, and away from screens.
All my children eventually had the opportunity to compete overseas. My son had the time of his life battling 10- to 20-knot winds. Was he scared? Of course. Did he want to call it quits at times? Absolutely. But today, that young man is serving his National Service, strong, fit, and resilient.
Coaches have asked me before: “Are you sure you want your daughter to go to Denmark? She’s not experienced enough, and the winds there are far too strong for her to manage.”
My answer? Sure, she might come in last competing in strong winds and heavy waves for the first time. But the experience itself is priceless. It leaves a lasting impact that shapes who they become. Down the road, she’ll be able to look back, face any challenge, and confidently say: “Been there, done that.”
So, is sailing something you should take seriously? Absolutely, “Yes.” When you pour this much time, heart, and effort into a sport, you owe it to yourself to give it your all. But just like that fun little sticker on my daughter’s boat reminds us: you also have to learn to chill. When things don’t go your way—like missing out on a spot to represent Singapore—take it as a lesson, not a defeat. Learn from it, let it go, and keep going. Above all, don’t lose sight of the joy of being out on the water. Just like riding a bicycle, sailing is a gift for life; once you’ve mastered the wind, you’ll never forget how to sail.
Signing off with happiness
Raymond Seah
